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Fathers Read…A Call for Photos October 26, 2010

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I’m a James Preller fan. I’m also a fan of anything that can help our boys become readers. James’s newest project is collecting photos of Fathers Reading. Do you have a picture of your husband reading, to himself, your kids?? My husband is a big reader and reads more than even I do. He recently finished The Dead Tossed Waves on audiobook and is currently reading of Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln. He also reads with our kids. Right now it’s Nick of Time by Ted Bell to our son. My husband even knocked my socks off last night when he casually told me he was looking forward to Carrie Ryan’s new book. Me, thinking I know everything about books, tells him that there is not a third book in the series. He not only knew that there’s a third book planned in her series, but knew what the cover looked like, when it was to be released, and the title-The Dark and Hollow Places. Where had he gotten his information? On Carrie Ryan’s blog! How much do I love that

I’m trying to think if I have any photos of him reading. If I can’t find one, I’ll be sneaking around trying to capture a few.

Please read James’ post and send in your photos!

FATHERS READ: A Call for Photos

October 18th, 2010 Posted in Around the WebThe Reading Gap3 Comments »

There are many contributing factors that help explain why boys don’t read as much as girls. The structure of the school day, the chemical differences between the sexes, the books themselves, the lack of male role models, the overwhelming majority of women who serve as gatekeepers (teachers, librarians, editors, bloggers, reviewers), and so on.

I’ve wrestled with this issue a lot lately. Numerous times I’ve attempted to address it, but always ended up unhappy with my tone of complaint. I can do negativity pretty well and far too effortlessly. I wanted to do something positive, something constructive, even if it was small and quite probably useless.

Thanks in part to an offhand comment made to me by author Lewis Buzbee (a guy who routinely imparts wisdom in casual asides), I’ve reached the conclusion that one of the most powerful, positive factors to encourage and inspire boys to read is, very simply, to see their fathers read. Look, there’s dad sitting down with a book. Any book. Fathers don’t just chop down trees, fix door jambs, and watch football. We read, too. It’s a valid male activity, like burping. Think of the power of that simple image. There’s Dad with a book in his lap.

I recently acquired the domain name, The site is not up and running yet, but I’m working on it. Kind of. Slowly.

Here’s where you come in. I need photos. Pictures of men with books. It could be any photo, and the wider the variety the better. Fathers with children, fathers alone. A shot with humor in it . . . or not. A shot where the book cover is important — or not at all. Really, what I’m asking for is photos. That’s all. We’ll see where that brings us.

Please submit your photos via email to: with the subject heading, FATHERS READ. Thank you. I can’t do this without your help. If you can pass this request along to others, I’d appreciate it. In the meantime, here’s an unremarkable shot from a summer vacation, just a couple of guys lounging around, doing what guys do.

For more thoughts on the Reading Gender Gap, try these links:

The New Gender Gap by Diane Connell and Betsy Gunzelmann

America’s Reading Gender Gap by Bill Costello

Unchartered Territory by Kristy Valenti, on boys and comics.

Boys and Literacy by Elizabeth Knowles and Martha Smith.

Connecting Boys with Books 2 by Michael Sullivan.


2 Responses to “Fathers Read…A Call for Photos”

  1. I just came to your blog to look around, catch up, and — wow — was surprised to find this here. Thanks.


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